I just cant get it working.

I've followed the guides. Read other peoples posts about using multiple computers and been on chat asking for help.

I follow every step of the guide and whenever i go run character sets, it wont connect to my friends computer. How can i get it to work.. Laxxxxxxx heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

What do i have to do on every computer to get it to work?

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When you say 'friends computer' are you guys on the same physical network? How are your machines connected?